Jump into the Fire of Transformational Intimacy
In the depths of your relationship lies the secret to profound growth, deep love, and lasting transformation.
You may have already happened upon this in moments: a tense or difficult discussion suddenly opens, and time slows down, awareness widens, and you can actually feel the underlying scripts and codes that compose you changing.
What if, instead of stumbling on these moments almost randomly, you and your partner could learn to live in this transformational dimension of intimacy? What if you could deliberately turn towards your greatest challenges as a couple and find this realm where true understanding and connection happen, and which holds the magic fuel for growth? Could it be learned? Entered not by chance, but through intentional practice and unwavering presence?
We believe it can – this is why we’re offering “Living Transformational Intimacy.”
Remarkable couples relate from a place where attention and listening is finely tuned, and surrender to the intelligence of their own struggle. Within this sacred space, old patterns crumble, tensions dissolve, and new pathways to love and growth emerge.
So, how can you access this mysterious dimension of transformational intimacy?
We are inherently dynamic, fluid and adaptable beings, and growth-oriented couples are naturally drawn towards this depth of attunement, tapping into a shared field of love and awareness. As you learn to operate from a state of love and acceptance, radical honesty, and vulnerable courage, the very fabric of your relationship – and your self – undergoes a profound metamorphosis.
"Living Transformational Intimacy" beckons you to unlock the power of transformation within your relationship. Through cultivating deep loving acceptance, radical honesty and transparency, vulnerability and trust, and by harnessing the wisdom of your shared nervous systems, you can unleash a wellspring of transformation.
In this journey, you will:
Learn to Embrace Relationship Tension:
Harness the power of your most challenging moments as catalysts for growth and transformation.
Discover how to navigate conflicts and tensions, transforming them into stepping stones towards deeper intimacy and understanding.
Cultivate Presence with the Most Challenging Material:
Learn to be fully present with your partner, fostering an atmosphere of trust, vulnerability, and profound growth.
‘Stay with the Discomfort’ until you emerge from it new
Reliably Enter the Realm of Transformation:
Journey beyond the limitations of your identity and access the heart of your connection.
Tap into the transformative potential of shared awareness, where new possibilities emerge.
Unlock the Core of Your Relationship:
Discover profound insights that transcend surface-level understanding, bringing clarity to the core challenges you face as a couple.
Learn to enter into a state of profound presence, where the full potential of your intimate conversations unfolds.
"Living Transformational Intimacy" invites you to transform your relationship's challenges into transformative catalysts, opening what is most difficult into the path towards boundless love.
Apply now and embark on this journey of profound connection, authentic growth, and love.
Each Module will feature a live call (dates) with practices and theory. In the weeks between calls, you will be given practices to work on together and individually. Each couple will have an additional 2-on-2 call with Kathryn and Andrew between each group live call, for a total of 5 coaching calls during the course.
Module One: Grounding in Love: Laying the Foundation for Transformational Intimacy
Embark on the journey by anchoring in acceptance, love, and presence. Here's what you can expect:
Explore the fundamental principles that will guide your transformative journey
Learn how to orient to your own and your partner’s experience to simultaneously open up deeper layers of experience, and to maintain presence within them
Work with Practices that allow you to find your baseline even in the face of challenge
Module Two: Embracing Transformational Tension
Beginning the heart of the relational practice: learning to work with relational tensions for transformation. Here’s what you can expect:
Gain a deeper insight into the origins of relational tensions, exploring why they arise, and why traditional relationship advice can make things worse
Get to the heart of your specific tensions, opening deeper, more vital, more honest self-experiences and owning them
Discover the invaluable treasure hidden within these tensions and how to unlock it
Module Three: Navigating Transformational Tension as a Team
Staying in connection when things get intense. Here’s what you can expect:
Learn approaches for staying collaborative even in difficulty
Learn how to preserve and nurture your emotional and relational connection even in the midst of intense experiences
Find the door to expanded and profound awareness within the most challenging of materials
Module Four: Constructs: Freeing Yourself from Core Beliefs
Uncovering and relating with the fundamental constructs that generate tensions. Here’s what you can expect:
Come to understand the counter-intuitive role that constructs play in our lives
Uncover the underlying scripts, patterns, and assumptions that have defined your life and relationship, liberating your life energy for new creative possibilities
Connect the dots between the constructs that underlie your experience of life and relationship, and the tensions that you feel
Module Five: Processing Constructs: Staying with What is Real, and Getting Realer.
Get ready to dive deep into what is real and create a profound shift in your relationship dynamics. Here’s what you can expect:
Learn essential techniques and practices that will help you stay open and receptive to new information and perspectives
Harness the power of shared reality to awaken clarity within the relationship
Develop the skill of separating constructs from lived experience, unveiling the profound truth that lies beneath and paving the way for genuine transformation
Module Six: Living Transformational Intimacy
Putting it all together and stepping into a life of ongoing growth. Here’s what you can expect:
Learn how to skillfully navigate the different aspects of the practice, knowing when and how to utilize each tool and technique for maximum impact
Discover the keys for a continuous expansion of authenticity and intimacy in your relationship, cultivating a dynamic and ever-deepening connection that transcends boundaries, and grows stronger with each passing day
Finding Sovereignty: the delicate balance between individual growth and nurturing the connection, allowing both partners to thrive in their personal journeys while fostering a strong and harmonious bond